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Jeff Hittner's avatar

So interesting, Charity! I can’t wait to dive into some of your writing. I’ve noticed so many of the fathers that I coach so willing to build visions around their career and work but when it comes to doing the same for their life as father or more broadly their family (beyond materialism) they are stuck, or afraid. There’s a lot of social conditioning to unravel.

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Máté Bence Tóth's avatar

WOW, I'm in a totally different life stage as you, Jeff, but it was really moving to read your experience in Valencia.

Something I really needed to look at this city in a long-term perspective.

In the beginning of March, I moved to Valencia to finally start a new life chapter, settle down and therefore, to end my 2-year-long turbulent period of finding myself and a desired life environment.

But, on the day I moved, I had a motorbike accident, broke my ankle, and while the Spanish healthcare was pretty good so far, I have to move back to my home country for surgery and 6-8-week long recovery.

I'm gutted but now trying to envision the future in Valencia that will, finally, happen in the summer, if all goes well.

Since I haven't experienced too much from the city in this past month, I always had some doubtful moments if I'm in the right place, but I know that the accident and its aftermath mainly impact those thoughts.

Reading your experience - and all those other expats living in Spain - reassures me that I am (and will be) in the right place.

Hope to meet you, once I'm back! :) Perhaps we could do a Pathless Path meetup in Valencia? :)

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